Showing posts with label matrimony. Show all posts
Showing posts with label matrimony. Show all posts

Friday, August 5, 2011

Spend 1% of your wedding budget on finding the right life partner

We come across people all the time who claim that they shall give us a cheque of 1 Lac Rs. if they find the right match through us but as of now nothing! It is like telling a mobile brand let me use your services and if satisfied with it only then will pay for it – would anyone agree to this? Of course there are some businesses that have different business models but one cannot run a company without making profits! While this comes from their bitter experiences with various marriage bureaus and matrimony companies but the fact still remains that nothing comes for free!!People need to understand that there is a service cost involved and that they have to keep trying.

For the wedding day it has to be the works. The best hotel, the best location, the best clothes, the best jewelry and the list is endless. A middle class wedding today does not cost anything less than 1 million rupees but if they have to spend 1% of this amount in finding the right match it is like a pinch. Strange but true, isn’t it. This is also a mix baggage of the good old days where no one really paid to show matches, but they forget that times have changed now. You have to try various options before you can really find your “Prince Charming”.
The simple advice to people is that, rather buy one saree less or one jewellary set less for the wedding but invest that money in finding the right match. This is definitely the better than the latter because if you don’t find the right life partner then everything in and around it would be a waste. Not to mention the emotional turmoil one and his family would have to go through if this decision goes wrong. With so much at stake and such an important decision of life people still want to compromise on this journey of finding the right life partner and look for cheaper options.

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Thursday, April 21, 2011

How much to give up?

A million dollar question that most prospective brides and grooms ask today. How much should I give up? How much to compromise? What all to let go?

The interesting thing is that in a situation like this where there are too many factors that can affect a decision and it is probably one of the most important decision in your life to find a life partner it is indeed a million dollar question. one really needs to do more retrospect on this question and try and find the answer within. What is more important to that prospective bride or groom. One needs to ask the same question again and gain to find the answers. Its more like what works vs getting a right answer in a situation like this.

Is looks more important or nature?

Is money more important or education?

Is height more important or weight?


It is purely a personal decision and no one but your self can help you on this. As deciding on a life partner comprises of complex parameters to make a choice from, one needs to take a call and prioritize. But again this can only be done on a case to case basis. There is no fix template that can tell you what is right and what is wrong. Hence as mentioned earlier its more like what works and what doesn’t. Some may prefer x and another may prefer y. its ok. its fine to have that choice, but you need to make a choice and then feel happy about. Always remember the grass is always green on the other side, so its important to count your blessing daily and cherish and appreciate what you have and can have rather than endlessly waiting for something and someone unknown.


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