Saturday, July 24, 2010

Happily Married!!

Once a mother wants to enroll her 3 children with a marriage bureau. She understands the working and terms & conditions of the marriage bureau and agrees to comply with them. She is all happy and super excited that finally her children will find a life partner and get married.
After completing all the formalities of filling the form and all other paper work, she whispers that she has some confidential details to tell. so the bureau person politely asks her to continue and assures her that her details will remain confidential and private. So she finally, hesitatingly tells him that of the 3 children 2 daughters are her sisters and the son is her own. So the bureau says thats not a problem at all, we have many cases where the guardian comes to enroll for the child.
So then she says no you dont get it, the 2 daughters are of her sister and her husband. Again the bureau person is wondering what is so confidential about this and assures her not to worry and that they will find a match for the 2 prospective brides.

Then she says that her sisters husband and her own husband is the same man. They are both married to the same guy and all six of them are happily living together!!

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Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Compromise – is that the only solution to finding a life partner

Well it’s the way one looks at it. compromise would have multi dimensions. Depends on what one calls a compromise. But if it is linked purely to let go then probably yes that is the answer. One has to understand and realize what he or she should let go while looking out for their life partner. Is career more important or family? Is money more important or values? Is stability a very big factor? There will be so many such questions running on a person mind while trying to decide on who will be the right life partner. Are there any right or wrong answers? Or is it purely a matter of what works and what doesn’t? Is it true that opposites attract? Then why do I try an d find a life partner with similar habits as mine?
The list of questions can go on and on but you are the right person to judge on what will suit you best so either you can decide on this one or keep waiting. Remember the famous saying though a bird in hand is better than 2 in the bush!!

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Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Managing Expecations

In the journey of finding ones life partner a prospective bride or groom knowing and managing expectations is an important task. Prospective brides want a groom and vice versa ,that has multiple qualities ranging from education, height, weight, personal salary, wealth, life style, habits, area of residence, size of house, type of family, family back ground and the list can go on. But in this process they forget to look at themselves in the mirror. It all begins with the I want I want I want and never what I am! That’s where lies the biggest problem in today’s generation. So it is imperative to manage these expectations and one should give it a serious though on what is important and what is ok to let go.

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